A woman has made claims on social media that her husband who is married to four wives has high s*x drive and conspiracy of her fellow women in marriage for Sinyoro to stay for weeks in her house is prompting her to quit marriage.
The woman recently shared her struggles as the fourth and youngest wife in a union with three other women.
While she enjoys a generally good relationship with her husband, affectionately referred to as “Sinyoro,” tensions with two of her co-wives are making life difficult.
The woman explains that each wife has her own home, and she has two children whom she sometimes leaves with her mother when her domestic helper is off duty.
Wala wakadii hako?Ini ndofara.Tiri 4 wives pamurume 1.T wo of my sister wives are taking advantage of my good heart.Ini ndini wekupedzisira. Munhu wese ane kumba kwake, inini vana vangu 2 ndinonosiya kwaamai vangu kana musikana ari ku off ndiine kwandinoenda but Sister wife 2 na 3 vanoda kusiya kumba kwangu. Sister wife 1 havana problem and her last born ava form 2.Parizvino vakaitwa op yekubviswa chibereko so pa duty rababa hatisi kuvaverenga vachiri ku recover.The other 2 fake illnesses week ravo rasvika then ndoita 3 weeks Sinyoro vari kwangu and they week ravo rasvika then ndoita 3 weeks Sinyoro vari kwangu and they all know kuti hapana mukadzi one angakwanise sex drive ya Sinyoro.Takabvumirana pachedu vakadzi kuti hatichada kuti vatore mumwe mukadzi but vava kundiregerera 3 weeks na Sinyoro ndinenge ndakuvara because vakakurisa.Vavariro ya 2 na 3 iri pakuti ndinete ndiende.I need help with contacts dzevanhu vanodzikamisa the two sister wives because Sinyoro havagadzirike vanonyumwa.Sister wife 3 akambovaisira mupfuhwira vakamurova sevachauraya.
However, the problem arises when her second and third co-wives leave their children at her home, taking advantage of her kindness.
The first wife, who has a child in secondary school, is currently recovering from a surgery that required the removal of her womb, and therefore isn’t part of the shared household duties for now.
What is making the situation worse is that the other two wives seem to fake illnesses when it is their turn to be with the husband due to his s*xual drive.
As a result, the fourth wife finds herself spending three consecutive weeks with Sinyoro, which she says is taking a physical and emotional toll on her.
According to her, Sinyoro has a high s*x drive, which none of the wives can manage alone, and this has left her exhausted.
The wives had previously agreed that they wouldn’t allow their husband to marry a fifth wife, but now she feels like her two co-wives are trying to push her to the brink of exhaustion so that she gives up.
She even recalls an incident where the third wife attempted to use traditional medicine on Sinyoro to calm him down, but her plan backfired when she was severely beaten for it. This leaves the fourth wife desperate for a solution, as she feels physically and mentally drained by the ongoing conflict.
Now, she is seeking help and advice on how to bring peace to the household, especially by finding professionals or individuals who can mediate and help calm the situation between her and her two co-wives.
She admits that Sinyoro cannot be controlled easily, and without intervention, she fears the tensions could escalate further.
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